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Tom Hanks: Why 35 Was the Hardest Age, and Why 68 Feels Just Right!
Tom Hanks, that Hollywood legend, recently opened up about aging in a surprisingly candid way! While promoting his new movie, Here (using some seriously impressive de-aging technology!), he shared some thoughts that truly resonated with many who already are thinking about the effects of aging on the body! He didn't just talk about Here – he reflected on his own life; explaining exactly what those very particular ages felt like and just how those impacts truly changed him; even touching on some very significant issues concerning health.
When asked by Entertainment Tonight about which age he'd want to revisit, Hanks (at 68) surprisingly stated 35 was the toughest! He even said, “That time where your metabolism stops, gravity starts tearing you down, your bones start wearing off, you stand differently — I think I’m in better shape now.” And those aren’t just empty words! Hanks attributes his current physical shape to several key things: his children being grown, some great exercise, and smart eating. He explained; "You can't do that when you're 35. Life is such a burden!" He downplayed all this, too; noting "Dude, I'm just doing what my 68-year-old, type 2 diabetes, just maintaining the temple baby. That's all I'm trying to do," adding that these small things make up a bigger overall plan and approach.
Here (releasing November 1st) reunites Hanks with Robert Zemeckis and Robin Wright (their first on-screen appearance since Forrest Gump). This movie uses some truly innovative ways to depict how life might seem to those viewing those events; which shows different families living in the same house across different eras – some really imaginative and very interesting choices; particularly in those transitions used to link multiple eras together. This cinematic experiment employs a fixed-camera angle; resulting in that fixed viewpoint; focusing primarily on those inhabitants which brings forward interesting cinematic issues. The fixed camera creates some technical and aesthetic choices and does not cut; making audiences actively involved in the experience.
Despite Hanks’ statements on Here's production, his views remained critical, noting many aspects were less than satisfying, “it’s not great to be young again,” focusing specifically on “when the aging process just begins to kick in and you no longer are able to spring up off a couch. And you're not yet to a place where life slows down completely.” Even Hanks and Wright’s de-aging looked less natural; almost somewhat unsettling. And many of those larger plots feel underdeveloped– some even completely clumsy–especially around their primary plotline which focuses on what looks like typical disappointments related to those American suburban dramas that make this entire film a less than amazing experiment despite the technical choices in de-aging technology; leaving Hanks to summarize everything, concluding “I’d rather be as old as I am.”
Hanks shared even more in an interview with Jay Shetty on On Purpose. He grew up after his parents’ divorce which required lots of travel as a kid, and this became very influential upon how he developed his skills as an artist: This created "five hours of just daydreaming...Five hours of looking out the window," triggering this early inclination for "Let's put on a show. Let's tell the story.” These memories formed him as a creative; emphasizing his independence and self-reliance. Even those earlier feelings from loneliness never led to “resentments,” resulting in "at 68, a lot of those years have been dealt with dealing with the latter and enjoying the former at the same time,” suggesting his immense maturity even with hardships.
Hanks also noted the effects his early independence had; he was given a degree of latitude that shaped him positively and negatively. "The healthy aspect of it has been a great aid to me, as well as the tendency to want to be isolated, to not need anybody, to not want anybody," suggesting tHere is both benefit and inherent peril in those habits. His approach to parenting is distinct – this is why he "made every mistake." It involved allowing freedom yet a necessary acknowledgement of the importance for human relationships.
Tom Hanks’ insights on aging and his deeply Personal journey add a lot to what fans already know of his history. He touches on very serious topics related to aging, health and family relationships that demonstrate a deep well of emotional maturity. He offers very thoughtful and memorable perspectives.
His comments about Here show that technology's progress creates enormous potentials– it's the narrative and those related artistic decisions which ultimately determine that entire final result! His Personal reflections, involving his own upbringing and even those struggles within family dynamics involving the difficulties faced while growing his own family provide even deeper insights on his unique experiences; and it shows his very significant personal evolution even when difficulties impact him personally.